Hello - There are a host of worthy causes here but I just hope some of you out there will be kind enough to help me. I'm a regular guy who got ill, lost his job and got in a mountain of debt as a result of both. To be precise I had a breakdown, self-harmed and was suicidal. I have what they call situational depression. That meant that I found it really difficult to deal with some really nasty behaviour by other people at home and work. It all created a bit of a spiral and - to be honest - my handle on money went out of the window, as did my abilities and self-esteem. I'm now out of that environment but am left with a legacy of nearly £40k of debt which I built up when I lost control of my life. I'm coping most of the time but sometimes health wise I lose it and talk about "my debts dying with me". That's not nice and I don't ask for help lightly. It's tough as I still have some pride! I'd just be incredibly grateful if anybody would help me. Thank you so much - you have all my love and respect...