Please help

I am trying to raise money for the most amazing lady you have ever met. She has had a really hard life, you has lost a child due to illness and has four children. She has lung cancer which has spread to her spine. She is her husbands career who has broken his hip and has had two strokes and has never recovered from them. Instead of feeling sorry for herself she keeps coming to work and instead of cashing in her super and making her life easier she is trying to save money so she has something to leave her children.