Left broke and in debt by Narcissistic partner. Facing eviction, lost my job and unemployment doesn\'t touch rent or bills.

Berta Chavez, Barstow,Ca



Had to end a narcissistic relationship for mine and daughters mental health. He left us with no money,,to survive until he withdrew his 401k i had loans out. I have my biological daughter and his biological daughter whom i have been raising with no assistance from him. I lost my job and am fighting to get it back. I'm on the brink of eviction because when he got his 401k he bought a car after he broke mine leaving us with no transportation Then decided his family was not work anything and decided to leave us for another family. Hasn't seen his daughter in 8months i have been the sole provider for most of 7years and now that I'm struggling he left and  my own family is nowhere to be found..  I have never in life had to ask for help because I have been self sufficient.  After going through the abuse of a narcissist I was in a total state of depression and am climbing out. Finding a job is the problem and state assistance barely helps because I make 100 over their limit with unemployment.  I live-in California my unemployment doesn't even cover my rent. My landlord and rental company have been patient, however I know they need their money as well. I can't seem to catch up on anything no matter what I do. Anything  is appreciated i.just don't want to be homeless and disgrace my 2 teen daughters because their dad left us. I was supposed to get 7000 from him and we got nothing.  We got abandoned and hurt hearts. While I worked at the railroad I am now unemployed raising our girls and trying to keep my head about e water but seem to be drowning. I came from and abusive home i never imagined being with a narcissist or that people hurt someone for their own gratification. My 2 daughters are my life and I feel like inhave failed them. I'm not accustomed to begging because I have always been the care giver the provider always there to help others. I am struggling and have to hu.ble myself to ask for help. We appreciate anything a d God bless. Thank you in advance. Berta PayPal. paypal.me/berta1022

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