In trouble pls help

Pls hear , South afr

Hallo world im 44 years old live in a very small town in south africa , in the last six months i lost a husband , no he did not die he just woke up one day and left with my best friend , 2 month after he left i was told to move out because the house was sold, and finding a job with no car in a small town and me at 44 years is hard , i do odd jobs that i can find i have a mother thats in my care thats sick i love her to bits but i need help all i want is n place to call home , to get rid of my debt and take care of my mom , any help wil be welcome regards irene