My partner of 3 years left me when he found out I was pregnant. I then lost my job as I was self employed and the company didn't want someone that would be on maternity leave. I had to use credit cards / loans / overdrafts etc in order to but cribs, clothes, nappies. I then couldn't afford the repayments so had to take out pay day loans and now I'm in such a mess I don't know where to even start