I am 23 year old male and I had everything going for me last summer. I had a long lasting job at costco for just over two years, I have a lot of credible work experience, I've graduated high school and went to college for two years. I had no credit history what so ever, nothing ever in collections, nothing on my driving record, not a scratch. I had a clean slate. About september of last year, I got into my first relationship in three years. Thus, I was infatuated and completely let her take advantage of me. In our six months of dating, I, very stupidly, quit my job, bought a car with no credit (a 2000 ford taurus for almost 10,000), I let her use both of my bank accounts to cash fraudulent checks, with all beliefs that she would pay it all back before anything would happen. She convinced me to put her Comcast account in my name since she owes them, $500... now I owe them $700. I got a TV from Rent-A-Center, and when we broke up, I was unable to transport it, as well as other things, christmas gifts, clothes, books, important irreplaceable memorabilia. She put every piece of musical instruments in the pawn shop, with me thinking she would get them out, as well as my xbox 360 and all of its games. She, nor her family, will respond to anything I ask for and I am being completely nice and 'understanding', not swearing, not threatening, nothing mean or any rude connotations. The police will not help me, but I need to file a civil suit. But with having to pay rent, food, comcast, car, tv, becu, chase, payday loans, etc. it has shown impossible to even get the application fee for to file the civil suit. Especially without a job. I have two interviews on average a week and I have been hired part time as a manager of a pizza place. That will maybe get me by with paying bills alone. thats not counting rent, food, or anything else. Nor am I sure it would cover bills. I am totally in over my head. My world flipped upside down from a clean slate to the worst financial situation I've ever been in. I owe over 20k... I am Bi-Polar and take 9 pills a day, so it kind of shows the reason of not having a job just yet, but I am productively work on it. I see a counselor and a psychiatrist (who now wont see me due to lack of payment, so I am kind of screwed with my meds....) once a week both. Just way in over my head. I go to labor ready when I am not in a manic depressive episode, and earn $50 a day if they even have a job for me, which is food and gad and hopefully food for my dog. I'm just in a really bad situation. I have a prepaid debit card I need to use because of her fraudulent checks. Just a trainwreck. I have a paypal and that debit card. Anything helps, really. I am in a really bad place and I need my medication and i need to feed my dog and I need to pay rent and I need to do this civil suit and I need to pay at least Rent-A-Center every two weeks otherwise I get a felony charge of theft that I simply cannot afford. I am not this person she has almost made me become. Of course it was my fault, but, everyone learns in their own ways, and my way was extremely destructive. Anything helps. Thank you everyone...